Hello there everyone!
You know when someone says the right word at the perfect time and that person makes your day? Well, what about those times when that person says something that maybe is not the right thing to say at the time? How long do we think about it? Is it just a day too? Or does it go on for longer?
Why is it that we always focus on the bad things most of time....and it takes a lot more effort to be recognized for something good we have accomplished. For example, why do teachers call parents when their son or daughter is doing bad in school but not when they have excellent marks?
I was just thinking....can we not tell everyone we talk to one good thing about them and why we appreciate them? Does it take that much effort? So much effort, yet we are very skilled in criticizing others....
How many times do we ACTUALLY know we have said the wrong thing, and we try and try to apologize yet the person doesnt accept it? What if you are one of those people? Why cant you say its ok, I forgive you? Why is it that it takes so much to accept someone with their faults too?
I just wrote many many questions, and I am sorry if you are not the "thinking" type. I just had not done it before, so I just wanted to see how it would go. I believe that all of us are beautiful and will be able to accomplish great things, and that all we need at times is a little push.
Every one of you is so valuable....and if it werent for you, I could not be writing this, so thank you.
As I have mentioned, my email is tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
Dont hesitate to email me!!
I love you all soo much!
Girl
p.s: I almost forgot the song for this post, it is Keep Holding On - Avril Lavigne
Showing posts with label songs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label songs. Show all posts
Monday, March 28, 2011
Friday, March 4, 2011
A problem that needs to be talked about
Lately I have been talking to different people. And i'm starting to find a common denominator. Cutting. It seems like many of you go to that when you cant take it anymore. Like you have no other option. But it is not true, that is NOT your only option. In fact, it shouldnt be even an option. But I dont want to judge :) And I wont. You could talk to someone. A close friend, a family member, there are many people you can open up to. Me included. Never hesitate to talk to me if you want to. I can assure you will not be the first one to.
Not only do you have to talk if you dont want to, but there are things you can DO. You can practice one of your "old hobbies" because it is most likely that you dont do them anymore, or you find no interest in them. But give them a try again! You will see that after a couple of times you will start to redevelop your liking for them. In another post, I posted things that different types of people usually like to do, so you can check that out! :)
I want to start a new thing (as well as the song sharing) is that I want to dedicate each post to someone who has been through a lot lately and is working towards overcoming it! This one is dedicated to MATT. Stay strong boy, it will all be ok. You are not alone. It will get better!
The song I want to share is Everybody-Ingrid Michaelson. It is an amazing song that talks about how we all need to feel loved at some point. And it really boosts you up! :)
Take care everybody and dont forget to smile! <3
Girl
Not only do you have to talk if you dont want to, but there are things you can DO. You can practice one of your "old hobbies" because it is most likely that you dont do them anymore, or you find no interest in them. But give them a try again! You will see that after a couple of times you will start to redevelop your liking for them. In another post, I posted things that different types of people usually like to do, so you can check that out! :)
I want to start a new thing (as well as the song sharing) is that I want to dedicate each post to someone who has been through a lot lately and is working towards overcoming it! This one is dedicated to MATT. Stay strong boy, it will all be ok. You are not alone. It will get better!
The song I want to share is Everybody-Ingrid Michaelson. It is an amazing song that talks about how we all need to feel loved at some point. And it really boosts you up! :)
Take care everybody and dont forget to smile! <3
Girl
Monday, February 28, 2011
So thankful!
Wow you guys. I am so honored to have views from Morocco and Denmark. Honestly, I feel so privileged to be able to help! Even in the tiniest bit! Thank you <3
I would like to dedicate this post to Rachel and Allison (whom I hope see this) for being super strong yesterday! Honestly girls, I am sooo proud of you!! <3
As I mentioned in my last post I was going to share more songs that made me feel better. This set of songs relates to basically recognizing that you will be loved. When you are depressed you feel like you dont deserve any love or that nobody could ever love you for who you are. But I realized I was wrong, and you should too! So here they go:
1. She will be loved - Maroon 5
Obviously well known. I dont know why, but the acoustic version is just soo much better for my tastes, and it gives it more feeling! I love the line "Look for the girl with the broken smile, ask her if she wants to stay a while".
2. Talking to the Moon - Bruno Mars
This song is kind of me pretending there is that guy out there singing this to me. And honestly, listen to it enough times and you start to believe it! You have to love Bruno Mars! This songs makes me realize how guys can secretely hope for someone too, and it can be YOU!
3. Somewhere Out There - Our Lady Peace
This song is special to me too. There was this guy who I liked and we were at a party and they started playing this song and he started singing it. At the time I didnt know the song, so I had to go look it up. And then everytime I listen to this song its like (again) thinking that there are guys that are hoping to be loved too! But at the end, you know that the person you are going to be with it "somewhere out there". It's hopeful! I love it! And it reminds me of him everytime I hear it :P
4. Someday You Will Be Loved- Death Cab for a Cutie
AMAZING SONG! I actually just found it towards the end of my depression. But I love it and definetely give it a listen if you havent already. Because you will know that "you will be loved, you will be loved like you never have known". So amazing! Honestly, this is the song to go to at the worst of your times! It will boost your self-esteem :)
5. Who I am - Nick Jonas & The Administration
This song is just a great self-esteem booster too! Many people know him for the Jonas Brothers group. But honestly this is totally different. This is himself. Its more raw. And totally not disney (in my opinion anyways). It talks about how asking for love is not a bad thing. Because we are all unique and we should be loved for "who we are".
So those are more songs that helped me personally. There are obviously still more, but I'm thinking everytime I post something new, I will reccomend a song too :) Like at the very end. I know most of you are sending me emails to contact me, but don't be shy in posting comments, you can even talk to each other! I know you would all love it! Even if you just say hi :)
You guys are so awesome and beautiful. Each one of you :) <3
Take care and dont forget to smile!
Lots of love,
Girl
PS: I will from now on ALWAYS post my email at the end of each post because if for some reason someone just sees that ONE post, they will know how to contact me :) Again, dont be afraid to, unless you have something mean to say in which case keep it to yourself! Its tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
I would like to dedicate this post to Rachel and Allison (whom I hope see this) for being super strong yesterday! Honestly girls, I am sooo proud of you!! <3
As I mentioned in my last post I was going to share more songs that made me feel better. This set of songs relates to basically recognizing that you will be loved. When you are depressed you feel like you dont deserve any love or that nobody could ever love you for who you are. But I realized I was wrong, and you should too! So here they go:
1. She will be loved - Maroon 5
Obviously well known. I dont know why, but the acoustic version is just soo much better for my tastes, and it gives it more feeling! I love the line "Look for the girl with the broken smile, ask her if she wants to stay a while".
2. Talking to the Moon - Bruno Mars
This song is kind of me pretending there is that guy out there singing this to me. And honestly, listen to it enough times and you start to believe it! You have to love Bruno Mars! This songs makes me realize how guys can secretely hope for someone too, and it can be YOU!
3. Somewhere Out There - Our Lady Peace
This song is special to me too. There was this guy who I liked and we were at a party and they started playing this song and he started singing it. At the time I didnt know the song, so I had to go look it up. And then everytime I listen to this song its like (again) thinking that there are guys that are hoping to be loved too! But at the end, you know that the person you are going to be with it "somewhere out there". It's hopeful! I love it! And it reminds me of him everytime I hear it :P
4. Someday You Will Be Loved- Death Cab for a Cutie
AMAZING SONG! I actually just found it towards the end of my depression. But I love it and definetely give it a listen if you havent already. Because you will know that "you will be loved, you will be loved like you never have known". So amazing! Honestly, this is the song to go to at the worst of your times! It will boost your self-esteem :)
5. Who I am - Nick Jonas & The Administration
This song is just a great self-esteem booster too! Many people know him for the Jonas Brothers group. But honestly this is totally different. This is himself. Its more raw. And totally not disney (in my opinion anyways). It talks about how asking for love is not a bad thing. Because we are all unique and we should be loved for "who we are".
So those are more songs that helped me personally. There are obviously still more, but I'm thinking everytime I post something new, I will reccomend a song too :) Like at the very end. I know most of you are sending me emails to contact me, but don't be shy in posting comments, you can even talk to each other! I know you would all love it! Even if you just say hi :)
You guys are so awesome and beautiful. Each one of you :) <3
Take care and dont forget to smile!
Lots of love,
Girl
PS: I will from now on ALWAYS post my email at the end of each post because if for some reason someone just sees that ONE post, they will know how to contact me :) Again, dont be afraid to, unless you have something mean to say in which case keep it to yourself! Its tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Songs that helped me :)
Hi guys!
Thank you so much for reading this. Honestly...Everyday I check the stats and it's growing :) Today there were most from the States and from the UK, and i'm not even from those places!
So, as promised I said I was going to share songs that helped me through some of my most difficult times. I am a girl, so keep in mind that. Although, for most of them that doesnt matter. I will post the song, and a brief little thought on them. If i see that I have too many (because this was a long period of depression for me) I will make a part 2 of this post :)
1. Life is beautiful - Vega4
Honestly, this is an AMAZING song that will lift your spirits up instantly! I love it sooooo much! I first saw it on MTV's "If you really knew me" shows. And they played this for the credits, and I was searching for this song for a couple of days until I found it! It just really makes me smile no matter what! And i HIGHLY recommend you go listen to it right now! :)
2. Imagine - John Lennon
Obviously this one there is no much explaining. It is just a purely uplifting song. John's voice is just what you need to hear when you are having that terrible day. This one is my absolute favourite song if I just had to pick one. By far.
3. Beside You - Marianas Trench
Ok, this song is very special to me. I was very close to my lowest point during these four years and one of the only people I would ever talk to was having a really tough problem. And I dedicated this song to her. She was 8 hours away. And she thanked me from the bottom of her heart and returned the meaning of the song to me. It reminds me of those times. And it makes me a little nostalgic, but nonetheless happy :)
4. Somewhere Over the Rainbow/ What a wonderful World - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
This song I really dont remember when I first heard it. But I loved it from the beginning. And at the time I was just learning how to play the guitar. And it just combined two things that I love, hope&happiness and singing&guitar. It makes me hopeful of the future. Puts a smile on my face!
5. Brand New Day - Joshua Radin
Ok, so I heard this song first at the very end of an old episode of House (the show). I love HOUSE. It was a very emotional episode and it showed how sometimes after a whole tragic period in your life, you can actually put it away, and start a a "brand new day". Because you know you will be ok. It is honestly a beautiful song! If you like acoustic things, you will absolutely love this! I cannot stress enough that you have to go listen to it!
BONUS SONGS:
Ok, so those probably are at the top of my list. And as i mentioned before, yes there are a ton more! I just want to spread them out throughout posts.
But this little part is special. These songs I dedicate to each and every one of you out there who may be reading this. I really express myself better through dedicating songs sometimes....Enjoy <3
Let me take you there - Plain White T's
Just dont read this and do listen to it. I dedicate this to you personally.
Count on Me - Bruno Mars
Same thing. PLEASE GO LISTEN TO IT. It explains how I feel about you. Each. And. Every. One. Of. You. <3
Please after listening to the songs (all, some or none) and you want to contact me, please do. At tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
I check my email super constantly! So I will get it soon.
Know that it is never too late to get out of this and to ask for help <3
I love you peeps!
Girl
Thank you so much for reading this. Honestly...Everyday I check the stats and it's growing :) Today there were most from the States and from the UK, and i'm not even from those places!
So, as promised I said I was going to share songs that helped me through some of my most difficult times. I am a girl, so keep in mind that. Although, for most of them that doesnt matter. I will post the song, and a brief little thought on them. If i see that I have too many (because this was a long period of depression for me) I will make a part 2 of this post :)
1. Life is beautiful - Vega4
Honestly, this is an AMAZING song that will lift your spirits up instantly! I love it sooooo much! I first saw it on MTV's "If you really knew me" shows. And they played this for the credits, and I was searching for this song for a couple of days until I found it! It just really makes me smile no matter what! And i HIGHLY recommend you go listen to it right now! :)
2. Imagine - John Lennon
Obviously this one there is no much explaining. It is just a purely uplifting song. John's voice is just what you need to hear when you are having that terrible day. This one is my absolute favourite song if I just had to pick one. By far.
3. Beside You - Marianas Trench
Ok, this song is very special to me. I was very close to my lowest point during these four years and one of the only people I would ever talk to was having a really tough problem. And I dedicated this song to her. She was 8 hours away. And she thanked me from the bottom of her heart and returned the meaning of the song to me. It reminds me of those times. And it makes me a little nostalgic, but nonetheless happy :)
4. Somewhere Over the Rainbow/ What a wonderful World - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
This song I really dont remember when I first heard it. But I loved it from the beginning. And at the time I was just learning how to play the guitar. And it just combined two things that I love, hope&happiness and singing&guitar. It makes me hopeful of the future. Puts a smile on my face!
5. Brand New Day - Joshua Radin
Ok, so I heard this song first at the very end of an old episode of House (the show). I love HOUSE. It was a very emotional episode and it showed how sometimes after a whole tragic period in your life, you can actually put it away, and start a a "brand new day". Because you know you will be ok. It is honestly a beautiful song! If you like acoustic things, you will absolutely love this! I cannot stress enough that you have to go listen to it!
BONUS SONGS:
Ok, so those probably are at the top of my list. And as i mentioned before, yes there are a ton more! I just want to spread them out throughout posts.
But this little part is special. These songs I dedicate to each and every one of you out there who may be reading this. I really express myself better through dedicating songs sometimes....Enjoy <3
Let me take you there - Plain White T's
Just dont read this and do listen to it. I dedicate this to you personally.
Count on Me - Bruno Mars
Same thing. PLEASE GO LISTEN TO IT. It explains how I feel about you. Each. And. Every. One. Of. You. <3
Please after listening to the songs (all, some or none) and you want to contact me, please do. At tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
I check my email super constantly! So I will get it soon.
Know that it is never too late to get out of this and to ask for help <3
I love you peeps!
Girl
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Apologizing
I'm sorry everybody for not posting earlier. I have been sooo busy lately, but don't ever think that I am going to abandon this blog. Nope! Not happening!
I would like to dedicate this post to my friend Catherine (who will probably read this) and a new little friend called Jasmine (who I hope will read this). Catherine, thank you for being you! Jasmine, you are not alone, dont forget that! :)
Anywho, I hope everybody is doing good :) And if not, that's ok too, we all go through those days where we just dont want anything to do with anybody. But if you are reading this thank you! I was just checking the stats for this blog and turns out I have readers from India, Romania and Ireland!! That's crazy! Thank you! I hope you guys enjoy this and know that you are not alone! Never EVER.
It takes a lot of self-talking and a little bit of a push, but it is possible, and can certainly be done. In my next post I will be posting songs that made ME feel better in those days. It sometimes was all that helped me to keep going. I loved and still LOVE music. I identify myself with it, and can clearly recall the times when each of them helped me.
I love you guys!!
Dont forget to contact me if you need me :) or just want to talk at tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
Take care and Smile!!
Girl
I would like to dedicate this post to my friend Catherine (who will probably read this) and a new little friend called Jasmine (who I hope will read this). Catherine, thank you for being you! Jasmine, you are not alone, dont forget that! :)
Anywho, I hope everybody is doing good :) And if not, that's ok too, we all go through those days where we just dont want anything to do with anybody. But if you are reading this thank you! I was just checking the stats for this blog and turns out I have readers from India, Romania and Ireland!! That's crazy! Thank you! I hope you guys enjoy this and know that you are not alone! Never EVER.
It takes a lot of self-talking and a little bit of a push, but it is possible, and can certainly be done. In my next post I will be posting songs that made ME feel better in those days. It sometimes was all that helped me to keep going. I loved and still LOVE music. I identify myself with it, and can clearly recall the times when each of them helped me.
I love you guys!!
Dont forget to contact me if you need me :) or just want to talk at tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com
Take care and Smile!!
Girl
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