Who says you're not worth it

I was on the computer the other day surfing the web (as usual) and I stumbled upon Selena Gomez's new song Who says. It's really amazing what the lyrics say, and sometimes it is just what you need to hear. So if you are having a bad day or need some cheering up, that's the song to go to right now.

If you havent seen it already, please take a look at the poll on the side. I just want to see how many people turn to what when they need help. so PLEASE PLEASE just do that little poll. You can choose as many options as you want, because I know sometimes it takes more than one thing to feel better. In fact, if you can do that right now, and then keep reading that would be awesome!

So, I was trying to think of ways other than cutting like some alternatives for those of you who want to stop but dont really know how. I found a couple (you can take them or leave em , up to you!) So what about squishing an ice cube, or rubbing it where you would cut. Or instead of using something sharp, use a soft red pen. (Make sure it is soft though!). Or ripping up newspaper. Or drawing with a red pen and even drawing drops if you need to. Or the old classic of punching a pillow. \

I have no idea if those all or none work, because I never used them personally, but if you use of something else or you figured one of these works for you, please let me know by posting it in a comment below!

WHICH brings me to the point that now everyone can comment!! I switched the settings to everyone so that you all can participate if you want.

AS WELL dont forget that you can always email me at tweetie_girl20@yahoo.com I will reply to you! Dont be afraid to!

Love you all!!

Girl

A problem that needs to be talked about

Lately I have been talking to different people. And i'm starting to find a common denominator. Cutting. It seems like many of you go to that when you cant take it anymore. Like you have no other option. But it is not true, that is NOT your only option. In fact, it shouldnt be even an option. But I dont want to judge :) And I wont. You could talk to someone. A close friend, a family member, there are many people you can open up to. Me included. Never hesitate to talk to me if you want to. I can assure you will not be the first one to.

Not only do you have to talk if you dont want to, but there are things you can DO. You can practice one of your "old hobbies" because it is most likely that you dont do them anymore, or you find no interest in them. But give them a try again! You will see that after a couple of times you will start to redevelop your liking for them. In another post, I posted things that different types of people usually like to do, so you can check that out! :)

I want to start a new thing (as well as the song sharing) is that I want to dedicate each post to someone who has been through a lot lately and is working towards overcoming it! This one is dedicated to MATT. Stay strong boy, it will all be ok. You are not alone. It will get better!


The song I want to share is Everybody-Ingrid Michaelson. It is an amazing song that talks about how we all need to feel loved at some point. And it really boosts you up! :)

Take care everybody and dont forget to smile! <3

Girl