What do you think about expectations? Do you ever feel like everyone has way too high expectations of you? And no matter how hard you try it is never enough?
Well, I feel like that too. And I guess its normal....and you know what hurts the most? That the people you actually care about the most are the ones that subconsciously expect too much of you...So now the question is, how to fix it?
Because we all like being praised for something we deserve but to be honest we dont usually get that, so how to turn things around? I think that starting with letting other people know what goals you have for yourself is a good one, you know why? Because then they cant put the goals for you, you already did that yourself! So YOU have set your own expections...
What if you still think that nothing you do is good enough? Well, how about working harder for the next thing you do, then you cant say its not good enough, because guess what? It's better than last time! So there you go!
I mean it's not like expectations can be lowered just like that, but it is something that can be worked towards...and it is something we should all do. Set our own expectations that we want others to have for us...
How many problems would be solved by doing that? Many. Specially for us. And by us, I mean you and I.
I care so much about you guys...its crazy, even if I dont know you, I still do, no matter what and probably always will. This blog is a part of my life too. It's a way for me to express myself and at the same time helping others that are going through the same thing I went.
I love you all
Girl
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